Kids, Motherhood

Pause Mama…Pause!

January 26, 2015


My three year old (a.k.a ECB) is a ball of energy. He makes his presence known when he walks into a room. He calls me pretty Mama and whenever I make something delicious to eat he tells me I’m the best with a thumbs up and a wink. When we tell him to whisper or lower his voice it goes from very loud to just loud. He is the life of our home.

He does the cutest thing when he wants me to stop dead in my tracks. He doesn’t tell me to stop what I’m doing but instead screams “Pause Mama pause!” I love it and I hope he never changes it.

If I’m running up the stairs to get something and he wants to come along…”Pause Mama pause!”

If I’m sitting on the couch and about to read a book that he wants to listen to as well…”Pause Mama pause!”

If I’m playing cars with him and he needs to get an additional 10 cars from the playroom in his little basket…”Pause Mama pause!”

My sweet ECB if only you knew how much I would like to pause this moment in your life. I want to keep you small so I can enjoy your cute little phrases for just a little longer. I want to carry you around and give you cuddles forever. But most of all I want to press pause so I can keep you small and under my wing, protected. I don’t want for you to know what hate is, or what injustice is or what it means to fail. I want you to live in your little happy kid bubble.

The truth is if I pressed pause you would not feel the warmth of love or witness justice being served. And how will you ever taste the sweetness of success without ever failing? As far as your protection, that I will leave to the All Mighty Allah. By placing my trust in Him I know you will be protected whether I am with you or not.

Ask Farah

Public School vs. Charter School a Quick Comparison

January 20, 2015


Daanish will start kindergarten this year inshaAllah. I wanted to know which schools are good, charter or public? And what’s the difference between them. What all things do I need to look in schools for registering?

Would like to hear from you.




I remember having the same question when trying to decide what would be the best option for my first born. As parents we want the best education for our kids. Now more than before we have more choices including public, charter and private school.  Let me start by telling you a bit about each type of school in hopes of giving you a better understanding of the similarities and differences.

Public Schools

  • Have to follow state guidelines on what can be taught in the school
  • Must follow state guidelines on how kids will be evaluated
  • Government funded
  • Education is free
  • Open to all children
  • The school your child will attend depends on the school district you fall into

Charter Schools

  • Independently ran
  • Government funded
  • Not operating the school properly and poor test scores can shut down a charter school
  • Education is free
  • Open to all children
  • Need to fill out an application to enroll your child into the school similar to private schools
  • Spaces are limited and if there are more applicants than available spots a lottery is held
  • Freedom to be more innovative
    • May offer unique electives and teaching methods
    • School often has a theme such as STEM, Expeditionary learning, etc.
  • Centered on doing what is necessary to help children become successful at learning

Which is best?

Do a little research to figure out what your options are. Look up the ratings and reviews at for the public and charter schools in your area and perhaps talk to friends who have sent their kids there, ask them questions.

How do I register?

Once you come to a conclusion make sure you contact the school you are interested in whether it is a public or charter school for information on how to enroll the child. For public school the child must be 5 years old by a certain date (varies by state). They will most likely ask you for proof of residence, child’s birth certificate, immunization records, etc.

As for charter schools, these are usually not limited by school boundaries so you can apply to the ones you are interested in. There is an application you will have to fill out and will most likely be on their website. Also remember there may be deadlines for the application and there could be a lottery (children picked by random) if there are more applicants than seats available.

I hope that helps you out inshallah. Making duas for Daanish’s success in school! Ameen!


Food, Health & Wellness

Chai Spice Smoothie

January 9, 2015


Waking up at least five times in the middle of the night for my (not a newborn-why are you waking up so much) 12 month old baby has left me no choice but to greet the morning with coffee in hand. It’s an every day thing. Many times Wolverine makes a cup a joe for me and leaves it on my nightstand before he heads to work just to make it easier for me to jolt out of bed when four full of energy  kids come running to me.

Whenever I feel like I’m becoming dependent on something I like to change things up. I just don’t like the idea of not being able to function properly if whatever I’m dependent on is not readily available. Luckily I came across a recipe on Pinterest that sounded something I’d enjoy. A healthy chai flavored drink with protein, omegas, fiber and antioxidants. Quick and easy to make which is exactly what I needed. The most time consuming thing you’ll do is make the chai spice blend which you can use to make more smoothies.


Chai Spice Smoothie

Recipe adapted from CocoJenalle

Chai Spice Blend


  • 2 tsp ground cardamom
  • 2 tsp ground cinnamon
  • 1 tsp ground cloves
  • 1 tsp ground nutmeg
  • 1 tsp ground ginger





Combine all spices together.  Store in an airtight container.


  • 1/4 cup almond milk
  • 1/4 cup coconut milk
  • 1 frozen banana
  • 1 heaping spoonful almond butter
  • 1-2 tsp chai spice
  • 1 tbsp flax seed
  • a squirt of honey


Combine all ingredients in a blender.  Blend until smooth.

*If you don’t have coconut milk you can do 1/2 cup almond milk. Ive done this a few times and it turns out fine.


So yummy ECB even slurped it down and took mine away from me too. Are any of you coffee addicts? Do you ever try to switch things up? Would love to hear your morning boost suggestions!